What would you change if you could?
This was the question I was asked that set all of this in motion. Feeling stuck in the grieving process, I turned to a a friend who is a bereavement counsellor. She asked me simply, if there was one thing you could change, except the outcome of course, what would you change about that week? Without really any cognitive thought, I simply said "something to dress her in". That week is a blur and mix of feeling like I was trapped in a nightmare or awake and in the unbearable, in
Why duct tape & WD-40?
I am sure you're wondering what does duct tape and WD-40 have to do with a baby loss charity? Well a lot more than you think. I grew up at the edge of the Mid-West in a place called Sparta, Michigan. Mid-Westerners are a special breed of folks, proud, generous, neighbourly and resilient. My grandpa could fix the car, build a house, make the best pancakes you've ever had and sew on a button or mend a hem all as easily as casting a line fishing. He was a true renaissance man. T
